on May 15th, 2008Friends Help Friends who are Anorexic
Friends Help Friends who are Anorexic
What should I do if I think someone I know is in eating disorder treatment?
If someone you know is in eating disorder treatment, you may be able to help.
Ask your friend to talk to a professional. Your friend can talk to a counselor or doctor who knows about eating issues. Offer to help your friend find a counselor or doctor and make an appointment, and offer to go with her or him to the appointment. Avoid conflicts. If your friend won’t admit that she or he has a problem, don’t push. Be sure to tell your friend you are always there to listen if she or he wants to talk.
Don’t place shame, blame, or guilt on your friend. Don’t say, “You just need to eat.” Instead, say things like, “I’m concerned about you because you won’t eat breakfast or lunch.” Or, “It makes me afraid to hear you throwing up.”
Don’t give simple solutions. Don’t say, “If you’d just stop, then things would be fine!” Let your friend know that you will always be there no matter what.
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